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Popular CultureOctober 17, 2008 9:42 am


While some celebs are busy checking in and out of rehabs, the rest seem to enjoy announcing retirement — only to make a comeback after a few years.

Apparently Eminem has done both! The latest news from him is that his sixth album will be called as Relapse, and it could hit the stores before the end of 2008.

Eminem has named his eagerly awaited new album as ‘Relapse’.

A single called I’m Having A Relapse has also been leaked online. Here’s is an excerpt:

“How the hell did he manage to get more felony charges? / He’s already got life in jail now what the hell is his problem / Well to be honest, the smell of these chronic leaves make me hella demonic / They compelled me to kill this elderly man an / I get these panic attacks, pop a Xanax relax / Tryna stick my fuckin’ dick inside a mannequin’s ass…”

What do you think? Methinks not so bad for average rappers, but it sounds too mediocre for Em’s supposedly big comeback.

Around the Globe, MiscellaneousOctober 14, 2008 4:32 pm

People with family name have at least an advantage over those who don’t own one — such as myself. It is easier to search for your family’s genealogy if you have a family name.

The hubby could even tell that his ancestors came from Moldova, while in his native country he hardly heard of any other families who shared the same family name with him — all thanks to such sites like publicgenealogy.org.

You too could find your roots using this lds genealogy. Don’t forget that you don’t have to be a member to use their free search engine.

Literature 3:49 pm

Often dubbed as one of 19th-century masterpieces, this work was first published in 1817. The author was Sir Thomas Stamford Raffles (1781-1826), English Lieutenant-governor in Indonesia during 1811-1816. Surely it’s a very familiar name for us in Singapore.

In 1965, Oxford University Press in England republished the book in two volumes, and then again in 1978. Several libraries in Indonesia have been keeping some copies, but they’re barely touched, because of language difficulty. Indeed, it is a bit disappointing that it took almost 200 years to get a very important work such as this to be translated.

In 1817, a critic said that The History of Sumatra (1811) by William Marsden was better than this work. Whether it was true or not, today readers will be able to compare the two works, because they have been both translated by Penerbit Komunitas Bambu. However, Raffles provided more sources for his writing. For months he did some actual researches in many places in Java and Bali, while Marsden only used references written in Portuguese.

In this work, Raffles described his awe at Javanese exoticness. Assisted by many experts, he managed to translate many sources, such as Bharatayuda and Babad Tanah Jawa.

He said, he was never certain of where the name “Java” was originated. It was obscured. Some claimed that it came from the word “Jawa-wut”, a type of rice species, which was the local staple food at that time.

He also admired the fertility of the land, which he claimed to be caused by the existence of numerous mountains. About the local dwellers, he said that in European views, women looked weather-beaten, especially the elder ones — unlike the men.

Unlike the Dutch government, Raffles approached Javanese with more positive attitude. He thought Javanese people were “easy going and courteous, shy, gentle, but they were slow in movement.”

The men normally only had a wife. But many higher officers, such as chief, had more than one. A king could have up to ten.

The majority of foreigners in Java were Chinese. In early 1800s, there were about 100,000 Chinese. Most of them lived in Batavia, Semarang and Surabaya. The rest dwelled in smaller regencies.

Raffles also noted that the structure of society in Java was very simple and the people were less demanding. They made their livings by creating handcrafts, such as garments, rugs, carvings, and many more. There was hardly any capital needed for the business, and specialized professions were rare. Thus, manufacturers had little chance to survive.

On the other hand, Javanese owned special terms to address their workers, such as blacksmith, carpenter, papersmith, and tailor. To describe those workers, he provided the pictures of tools they used, including hoe, saw, sickle, crowbar and many selections of krises.

The work also mentions the intrigues which surrounded the history of Javanese royalties. It depicts how King of Mataram, Amangkurat II stabbed Trunojoyo to death before his officials.

Raffles was a keen author. He often wrote at night, mostly in Cisarua, between his tasks as an official. When he returned to London, he was determined to continue writing. He took not less than 30 tons of writing materials with him, and for months they were held by the customs.

But it was not all futile. His masterpiece keeps his name alive.

Now, any of you knows where to get the copy here in Singapore?

For Mommies 1:51 pm



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ShoppingOctober 10, 2008 2:29 pm

These days it’s become more and more difficult for pranksters to play their tricks over the phone. The reason? There are many ways to unveil their numbers.

Who Just Called Here.com is one of them. This site can track any phone call you receive — whether it’s listed or not — and get you the information about the owner. Don’t worry, it’s FREE!

Type the number in the search box above, and you’ll find out.

Now, no longer will you ever ask, “Who Just Called Me?

If you have some change to spare, you can also try its other services, such as the reverse phone lookups for a one time fee of $39.95 and privacy protection — also for a one time fee of as low as $4.95, which will block your name and private information from data acquisition service such at this — in case you’d like to prank somebody. ;)

Singapore, For Mommies 1:39 pm

Last Saturday the gynae confirmed that our baby’s still breech. For some time about getting an External Cephalic Version (ECV) to try to make him turn. A friend informed me about a gynae who would be able to do it. I had almost made up my mind, when I stumbled upon this article.

Many sources state that this ECV is relatively safe, but that doesn’t mean that there is no risk. Here are some of them:
- Premature labor
- Premature rupture of the membranes
- A small blood loss for either the baby or the mother
- Fetal distress leading to an emergency cesarean delivery
- The baby might turn back to the breech position after the external cephalic version is done

The average success rate is about 65%. Even if the procedure works at first, there’s still a chance that the baby will turn back around to the breech position. That may not sound so bad, but mommies should note that this procedure is very painful. The same friend who informed about the gynae said that her friend opted for C-section after trying this ECV, because she couldn’t stand the pain. Another one told me that she did it, and it left her with pain on her tummy for as long as one week, and even then it didn’t work.

Another thing we should consider, being in Singapore, is the cost. Surely we wouldn’t want anything bad to happen, but in the case of emergencu C-section, it would be a lot more expensive than the scheduled one. Here is an estimated bill size from general hospitals here. If you plan to give birth in a private hospital, expect higher price.

So, for now we’re just hoping for the best, and sticking to the good old ways: lots of squatting, floor mopping and crawling with my head lower than my thighs. There’s still time for our baby to turn — and hopefully he will, being a good boy that he is. :-)

For Mommies, ShoppingOctober 9, 2008 1:25 pm

Nobody enjoys to be hospitalized, but sometimes we just can’t escape it. Such is the case with myself a few weeks ago. Fortunately all the staffs in the hospital were being helpful.

One thing which could be improved, though, is the hospital gown. They only provided pants for patients, and those were too difficult to be worn for patients with catheters like me.

So, next time I’m admitted into a hospital — which will be anytime within five weeks from now — I’ll be ready with my own versatile hospital gown.

Don’t you think they look great? They’re provided by a brand called “The Original Healing Threads”, and they’re available online here.

Besides looking good, those gowns also offer more benefits to patients: the front access panels make them comfortable for nursing mommies, the back opening will maintain modesty during breath sounds checks, and the interior pockets will hide your drainage bags. Remember, visitors don’t have to know what you’re dealing with, right?

All garments are said to be soft and comfortable, colorfast, wrinkle resistant, machine washable, and gentle to individuals experiencing sensitive skin.

While most online shops are only accepting orders from within USA, they will ship to your country via UPS International. Thus, all costs will be calculated based on UPS rates.

But the good news is that The Original Healing Threads will give you wholesale pricing if you purchase ten items or more. Prices are varied, depending on the items, but you won’t have to worry about the quality. The Original Healing Threads have made media appearances in magazines and TV programs, such as: Elle Magazine, Grey’s Anatomy, and The Boston Globe.

If you’re not satisfied with your gown, you can call their toll-free number, 1-877-647-3900 to report your problem. You will get refund, but you’d have to be responsible for return shipping the original purchase — that is, of course, in the case if you don’t wish to get a replacement.

Visit their site for more information.

Popular Culture 12:02 pm

Eminem is VIBE’s Best Rapper Alive!

To his victory, he said:

“I don’t think that there is any one rapper that is simply the best though. Everyone who was in consideration and many others are the best at certain things, and at what they do. But since VIBE’s offering the distinction, hell yeah I’ll accept!”

Wow, it’s been ages since I heard news about him at all. Six years ago I wrote a thesis about him and owed him an A. But whenever I reread it now, I feel like I wanted to bury my head under the pillow. It was kinda awful really.

Anyway, glad to know that he’s doing fine, and has seemed to stop whining. But who would complain with all that money? (Wise?) men say money is not everything, but without money you’d have nothing ;)

Shopping 11:04 am

For you who live in Europe, winter is coming again. An air purifier would be most useful, since most of the time you’ll leave all your windows closed.

Although they are commonly marketed as being particularly beneficial to allergy sufferers and asthmatics, I’ve found it to be very important to have one at home. And no, neither I nor the hubby is asthmatics, nor that we have winter here in Singapore.

The obvious reason is because most likely you’d find all types of junk in the air around you, especially inside closed rooms. They’re not just odorous, but also posing a risk to your health.

If you plan of cleaning the air in your house, then purchasing an air purifier is the solution. Before doing so, however, you can first do your own research online.

Depending on your purpose, there are actually several types of them in which you can choose. I myself am very satisfied with the very basic one which only eliminates odors.

How about you?

Popular Culture 10:22 am

It’s been a long time since Beyonce delivered something that I actually liked. I loved her ballads during her Destiny’s Child, but I found her solo songs to be difficult to listen to — if not annoying. Sorry Beyonce’s fans, but I’m really not into songs like Crazy In Love and Deja Vu. You might wriggle, but there’s no way you can dance to such tunes. Such is the case with Rihanna.

But hey, I actually like Beyonce’s latest single, If I Were A Boy. It’s refreshing.

What’s better is that today I stumbled upon this young girl called BC Jean. She probably hasn’t made a name for herself, but it’s actually her who wrote If I Were A Boy. So now it’s her versus Beyonce! Her version is less mellow, stronger — definitely more rock chick than B. It reminds me to some of those Dawson’s Creek’s soundtracks — forgot the titles.

Click on the pictures to listen to each version! Who do you prefer?

ShoppingOctober 8, 2008 3:21 pm

I’ve been trying to get the hubby to change his eyeglasses — to no avail. His excuse is always that they’d cost too much. But ZenniOptical.com might prove him wrong. They sell glasses from as low as USD 8. How can you beat that?

Of course, it’s understandable that such low price will raise eye brows. The truth is that they produce their own manufactured frames direct to the customer, with no middlemen and no advertising budget. Apart from frames, you can also order prescriptions as you usually do in other optical.

The good news is that they also deliver to countries other than the US. The not-so good news is they don’t provide a repair service for eyeglasses. But it does sound ridiculous to send back an $ 8 glasses to the USA for reparation. The shipment would cost more anyway. What they’d do for you, instead, is to supply you with reasonable quantity of nose pads or screws on a continuing basis, for free, to fix the damage yourself.

In the case of incorrect glasses, they will correct it with no additional charge. Sounds fair enough to me, and it seems that I’m not the only one to think so. Here is what a happy customer has got to say.

Now, these look like something that hubby could wear.

The frame is made of full pure titanium, and total damage would only be $39.95. I’d definitely go for the grey ones, but I guess he’ll choose black. What do you think?

Singapore 2:22 pm

Another thing which is very expensive to have in Singapore besides car is property. I cringed at the thought that we might have to move out in December because our contract would expire. It’s a headache to think about the packing and unpacking things — especially with our baby being born in November. We’ll call some reinforcements, my mom and mother-in-law that is, but still —

We’ll need to do spring cleaning in both this flat and the new one, we’ll have to replace all broken things before moving out. Not that we damaged lots of things, but even changing all light bulbs in the flat would cost around $400. Then paying the agent fee would cost at least half-month rental. Of course, we’d need to top up the deposit, because nowadays it’s impossible to rent a condo with the same price like we did two years ago. Anyways, it took months before we made this flat our home, surely it wouldn’t take less time if we moved to a new place now.

Fortunately it didn’t have to happen — yet. We finally managed an agreement with the landlord about the price. Still not the same old price, but at least it’s not far exceeding our expectation. So most likely we’ll stay. Phew!

A question though. How much is good price for a 1+1 condo nowadays in the suburbs? We’ve checked a number of property portals, and most of them list condos which are between $1,800 - $2,000 and below. Not many, but they do exist. But most agents we asked couldn’t give any results in this price range. Instead they usually show places in CBD which cost at least $5,000.

Why is that? I know, the higher the price, the more fee they would get. But isn’t it stated in the law that above $2,500 tenants don’t pay agent fee? Of course, they’d still receive payment from the owners, but even if they get some deals below that amount, it’d still mean money. I mean $2,000 per transaction is not such a bad deal, methinks, especially since they’d only need to check their listing, show the unit to the prospective tenants, sign the contract and pay the stamp duty, that’s all.

Well, we’re not really looking for fancy places in CBD. A small, humble abode in the edge of the island would be perfect for us, since we’re not planning to pay more ERP. According to this listing issued by URA, our expectation is not at all impossible. Why do some agents say the opposite?

Shopping 9:36 am

Have you ever heard of Dealtime.co.uk? Those who are already familiar with online shopping must have, since the company has been around for not less than a decade.

What does it do, we hear you ask. Well, basically it’s an e-commerce search engine offering product lines from clothing, appliances, gadgets, to home and garden accessories, health and beauty products, sports goods and more.

Forget not that it’s not just one shop. It is actually a part of Shopping.com network, which is an eBay company. That being said, it will inform customers about millions of products, many merchants, and many more reviews. Of course, you can always compare prices from different merchants and decide which one is the best.

The key here is the search function. Because there are many products available, you’ll have to use this to sort them out. Just type the products you’re looking for, and click “search” button. For example, if you’re planning to buy a cheap computer, simply type Cheap Computers and the site will do the search for you.

You can also filter the results based on the price range, brand, installed RAM, and still add more additional filters. Visit Dealtime.co.uk to give it a shot now.

Singapore 8:04 am

They say “beauty is in the eye of the beholder”. Is it then appropriate to sound your criticism in public like these:

And it’s not just people with no lives who said such remarks in open forums. Noose’s Michelle Chong had also said her piece of mind about the Grid girls, “They looked as if their faces were langgar (knocked down) by the cars.”

Well, I know Noose was supposed to be funny, and such remaks could be amusing — but it’s a tad impolite, isn’t it?

I was only at the circuit for more or less 30 minutes. Didn’t really have the time to meet any of those girls. Seriously, do they deserve those harsh words?

For Mommies, ShoppingOctober 7, 2008 12:37 pm

Online shoppers, if you’re looking for free online promotion codes from merchants, 1-coupons.com is the right place. These coupons will help you to get better bargain. Some of them even offer up to 50% off of their products.

Depending on what you’re looking for, there are many shops which offer free coupons on this site. To get HomeDepot.com promotional codes, for example, you just have to follow the link, and you can save 50 per cent on an otherwise US$219 F4-0792 tray top bar. This offer is valid only for online purchase.

Of course, you’d need to ensure that those coupons are still valid, since they’re offered by the merchants, and not by 1-coupons.com.But considering the benefits, it’s definitely worth to try.

New mommies are perhaps among those who will benefit from online shopping, as window shopping can be pretty exhausting–having to carry our bulging tummies around. Thus you may want to try to purchase items for your little ones here. As for myself, I managed to spot a 50 per cent discount for this cute Eden’s Carry-All Tote. Not quite useful for the baby, I know, rather for me.

But fret not, there are items for your babies too. Here you can buy a Bugaboo Frog Stroller on buy 1 get 1 promotion.

If you’re currently looking to revamp the room for the baby, maybe you’d want to check this Graco Christon Dresser for only $99.98, and you’ll get free shipping too!

Or, you’re just looking for gift ideas for the loved ones? How about moses basket, or a changing tower? Whatever your choice is, be sure to find suitable coupons.