
Pregnancy is perhaps the most important phase of life. For a first time mother-to-be, however, it can also be most complex, especially when you’re living in a foreign country like we are now.
But don’t fret. Things will go well if you’re fully prepared. First of all, you’ll need help from an OB/GYN. Choosing the right one for you is very important, so don’t just go with any OB/GYN. Here are the things you would want to consider before seeing one:
1. Decide your budget
You can check the size of hospital bills you are willing to afford in this link from the Ministry of Health. Depending on the procedures and ward class, you will see different figures. Take your time to browse through them, and then make up your mind.
2. Do online researches, ask your friends, or visit a trustworthy GP for recommendations.
Some OB/GYNs only want their patients to deliver in specific hospitals, usually where they practice. Make sure the OB/GYN could deliver in the hospital you have chosen, and it should not be far from where you live.
I’d say it wouldn’t be wise for me to choose Mount Elizabeth, since I live in Pasir Ris. Perhaps I would just give birth on the way.
3. Avoid too busy clinics
In most cases, usually more patients also mean that the OB/GYN is better/ more likeable. But it might not be suitable for you, especially if it’s your first pregnancy. Busy OB/GYN will only spend 5-10 minutes for each patient to cut the line short.
First time mother-to-be are usually still confused about many things, so you’ll need the OB/GYN who can listen to your questions and needs. Say bye-bye to OB/GYNs who act rushed.
4. Check the environment, nurses.
Even when you find the OB/GYN is good, don’t forget that you’ll have to deal with the clinic’s environment for about nine months. At times you may find the nurses are hard to deal with, and at other times you simply can’t find any car park nearby.
5. Do some “trial” visits
Usually OB/GYN starts their package after your pregnancy is four months old. So if you begin to see them before that period, you should have a few visits before deciding whether you’re seeing the right one.